MIA

MIASorry I have been away. My life has been so hetic as of late. I am still not working. On the good not my hubby returned home safe and sound from Iraq. We recieved orders to move to missiori that we are trying to get deleted. As my 17 year old tessa does not want to go.
We were also informed by Her doctor that she was pregnant I cried for 2 weeks straight over it.  I finally accepted the fact that it was her choice. Well 7 weeks into the pregnany she started hemergen. I sat with her back and forth at the er for 3 days. They did test on the baby to see the blood count hormone level. It started at 4000 they said the number should double every 2 days. Well it went down to 350. They said once it reaches 50 that means the baby is no longer living. We were told to take a home pregnancy test in two weeks to see if it still said shes pregnant. If it is still reading that she is she has to go back in for more blood work to see what the numbers are. If they are 50 that means the baby did not completely abort itself and she will have to go in and have her cervix scrapped. IF the numbers are high that means the baby is alive. But with the huge drop in the number they are very doubtfull that its alive.
The doctor told her that 20 percent of woman miscarry in the first trimester and that it has nothing to do with the female usally it means something was just not right with the baby.
As for me some days i feel completely fine then others I wake up and it feels my whole lower back is on fire. I just wish I was back the way I was before the accedent.
And as for the weather I really hope it start warming up soon because we still have 5 foot snow banks yuk yuk