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The S.O.S. Mission

The S.O.S. Mission works to promote domestic violence awareness and works with victims to break the cycle of abuse.

Name:

Ramona Hovey

Location:

North Carolina

Country:

United States

Web Site:

www.sos.spc-asheville.org

Employee Type:

Volunteer

501c3 Org.?:

Yes

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Offline | Member Since: 04/22/09 | Login Count: 180 | Profile Views: 1783 | Last Login: 08/23/09

Biography

We are happy to have the opportunity to introduce you to The S.O.S. Mission at St. Paul’s Church. The Mission was born out of a desire to impact our community in ways that would see lives changed forever. St. Paul’s Church believes that Church is much more than Church members meeting in a building and this conviction gave birth to the mission. As a registered North Carolina non-profit Corporation we strive to use our gifts and resources to provide relief to families who are trapped in cycles of abuse and violence. Our particular focus is service to battered women and their children. We serve this population because we believe the biggest impact we can have is helping families leave generational cycles of violence and abuse.

My Purpose

Our purpose is to transform victims of domestic violence from victims into survivors and to equip them with the life skills necessary to live safely and to become active, productive members of the community.

My Interests

Making lasting positve change in our community., Womens Issues, Faith Community, Domestic Violence, Child Abuse,

Getting To Know Me
What is most important thing in your life? Being an example and working to bring about change. Can you juggle ? No What is your favorite day? I enjoy them all! What is your favorite season? Spring What is your favorite meal? Blackened tuna steak What time do you wake up in the morning? since I hit 50 the time varies....LOL. If you could have one super power, what would it be? Positive persuasion. Comedy or Horror? Comedy If you could build a house anywhere, where would it be? I would build a series of houses in western NC to house women and children What is your greatest ambition? To eradicate domestic violence. Who is the person from you past you wish you could go back and talk to? My mother. What characteristics do you think you've inherited from your parents? Perseverance.... also known as stubborness. What do you never leave home without? My glasses If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it? Build a community for domestic violence victims called "A Season of Stability" where they could experience safety and stability and learn healthy living habits. What is the most embarrassing thing youve ever done? Oh my.... I'll have to think about this one. Hobbies and Talents : Stained glass and mosaics are my main hobbies. I also enjoy home gardening. List achievements and any future educational plans : I was raised in a small coal mining town in West Virginia (sounds like a country song about to happen doesn't it?), quit school in the 8th grade, married at 15, had 4 babies before my 20th birthday. I was married 21 years to an abusive man. So I know a little about domestic violence. One of my earliest memories is of someone asking me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I was about 4 years old. I responded by saying "I want to be a nurse and have 4 kids, 2 boys and 2 girls. Well, I did manage to accomplish these goals, though not exactly in that order. Having 4 babies and a very demanding and abusive spouse, made getting an education not an easy task. I started by getting my GED when I was 18 years old. I had just given birth to my third child when I took the exam. I then started taking one class per semester from the community college. They would hold night classes at the high school about 6 miles from my house. When 3 of my children were in school and my youngest was 3, I applied for and was accepted into nursing school. It was very hard to get through school and attend to my children and their father. But I succeeded. I have had a very good career as a registered nurse, working in a trauma intensive care unit at a major teaching hospital and level one trauma center, then as a nursing unit supervisor in a cardiovascular intensive care unit at a top 100 heart hospital, then as the house supervisor in the same hospital. I am currently working as a volunteer Faith Community Nurse to educate the public about domestic violence, and to teach women that they too can move from being victims to being victorious! I have been married 12 years to a wonderful, kind and gentle man who encourages me to be me and has shown me what love really looks like.

Photos Of The S.o.s. Mission

(Photos: 3 | Views: N/A | Last upload: June 17th, 2009 )

"Empty Shoes" exhibit Ages ranged from 5 months to 89 years.

This is a picture of the "Empty Shoes" exhibit I organized last month in honor of the 131 people murdered in North Carolina last year as a result of domestic violence.

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Despiration

Posted on Mon 25 May, 07:38 pm

DespirationIf something BIG doesn't happen soon, the mission will have to close. >>>

Requests History

Domestic Violence

Disabled

May 9, 2009

US Charity

Domestic Violence

Description: The S.O.S Mission aims to remove victims of domestic violence into a safe environment and equip them with the life skills necessary to live safely and to become active, productive members of the community. They are raising funds to purchase a building to house women with children who are coming out of abusive relationships. The S.O.S Missions strives to provide a place for women and children to live and learn healthy life skills and to ready themselves to become productive members of the community. They work to build relationships and empower women to move from victims to victors.

My progress: We have secured office and classroom space with a wonderful child care facility. We now need to purchase a building for long-term housing. This project is called "A Season of Stability".

This is a short term need assistance request .

My message:131 peoples live were taken last year in the state of North Carolina as a result of domestic violence. 1 out of 4 women will experience domestic violence at some time in their life. Boys who witness domestic violence are twice as likely to abuse their own partners and children when they become adults. The cost of intimate partner violence exceeds $5.8 BILLION per year, $4.1 billion of which is for direct medical and mental health services. When you take into consideration that many of these people are uninsured or under insured, think of the taxpayer burden this creates! We must break the cycle of abuse and violence and make generational change.

Supporting Documentation: The S.O.S. Mission has the following documentation

Progress:

$ (1%)

Still needed: $4975


Request was active: 456 days

Request created: May 9th, 2009 \| Request views: N/A \| Request modified 5 time(s) \| Last modified: Jul 23rd, 2009

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My Comments

The S.O.S. Mission	Jun 30, 2009 00:31:49
I am compiling a cookbook to help raise much needed funds for the S.O.S. Mission. If you have a recipe you would like to submit please send it to me. Thank you and Blessings! Ramona

The S.O.S. Mission

Jun 17, 2009 02:35:54

Please view the "My Media" section to see pictures of the
"Empty Shoes" exhibit I organized last month in honor of the
131 people murdered in North Carolina last month as a result of
domestic/family violence. Please help with this mission to break the
cycle of domestic violence. 
Blessings
Ramona

The S.O.S. Mission

May 25, 2009 15:53:10

There was a time in my life when I could have been that person in the
picture. I am very thankful to be here to raise awareness and give
hope to others. There is a way out. Don't suffer in silence. If you
have no one near you that you think you can talk to contact me. I'll
listen and do what I can to give you sound advice and work out a
safety plan.

Blessings
Ramona

Brooks Lamkin saving Florida camp

May 23, 2009 13:30:54

How's it been going. Hope ya'll have a " Happy Memorial
Day." Your picture has so much reality in it. I always try to
avoid reality. I was of those people likes to put their hand in the
sand, if you know what I mean.

Tricia

May 14, 2009 17:42:26

Thank you so much.  I have been doing just that - I realized that I
hadn't ever been alone and it took a while to enjoy it - it took a
LONG time for me to stop jumping at every noise and creak too.. but I
feel that that pat of my life is behind me and it is good.
If you could include my daughter in your churches prayers - I would
greatly appreciate it. She was in a horrible accident, and while she
is doing well now - as well as can be expected, I worry about her so
much.  Trauma at such a young age really takes a toll mentally, and
she still has a long road ahead medically.

Thank you so much!
Tricia

Tricia

May 14, 2009 01:17:42

OMG - your mission really touches me.  I was shocked by the photo, and
realize that was me not that long ago.  I had to have back surgery due
to abuse and I did leave - but then when my daughter was hospitalized
and I needed help with some gas money and asked my ex for some, we had
a good talk that turned nasty and I returned to the hospital with 2
black eyes and a concussion that lasted days - close to a week later
they (the nurses) sent me to the ER because I just wasn't acting as I
normally do and my balance was off- walking into walls, etc.. it was
thay cycle all over again.  I didn't go back - but I know how hard it
is for some women -ESPECIALLY with children to make that step.  You
are doing a wonderful thing.  Thank you!

Kay Shell	May 09, 2009 02:12:10
Hi. I am on here because of domestic violence. I pray that God blesses you and your mission every day.Were it not for His power I would not have made it this far.

Michie	May 09, 2009 01:07:55
HI just dropping by to wish you a great weekend and lettting you keow I am praying for your mission. Good luck and god bless

Patty	May 03, 2009 14:05:49
Hi, Just me Patty, Just thought I would stop by to say a quick "Hi" and to see how things are going!! thinking of you.

Patty	May 03, 2009 03:15:22
hi will say a prayer for you and good luck to you

Mom of 2	Apr 29, 2009 22:00:24
God is going to make sure some one is there that NEEDS to hear what you have to say...you will do GREAT!!

Mom of 2	Apr 29, 2009 20:49:39
I beleive in the power of prayer! So I am lifting you UP!!!

The S.O.S. Mission

Apr 29, 2009 14:54:37

I am hosting a fundraiser jewelry show and sale tomorrow evening from
6:00-8:00. Please send positive thoughts my way. I will be giving a
domestic awareness talk prior to the show... public speaking is not my
gift. Anyone who believes in the power of prayer, please remember me!

Michie	Apr 25, 2009 14:42:26
Just wanted to drop in and wish you a great weekend. :)

Michie	Apr 24, 2009 20:24:10
that sounds wonderful. You seem to be puttting so much into this I pray your dreams come true. :)

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