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Kay Shell
Trying to raise my son alone again
Name:
kay shell
Location:
Yucca Valley , California
Country:
United States
Occupation:
Abacus International
Religion:
Other
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My URL: http://www.microgiving.com/profile/kayshell
Offline |   Member Since: 04/22/09 | Login Count: 42 | Profile Views: 969 | Last Login: 05/31/09
Biography
Hi, My name is Kay and I recently got out of an abusive marriage. During this marriage I had no job and no personal income of my own. My ex husband was placed under an ex parte order and I had no place to live with my son except for my parents. I am here now trying to take care of him and put him through school on very little income. I work but I dont make enough for ends to meet. My parents live in a one bedroom house and really there is not enough room for my son and I here. I am trying to get up enough money to buy a camper to put on this land until we are able to find more room. My parents cannot afford this so its up to me. Any help will be appreciated as I am having to save up the money to buy my son and me a camper, plus take care of our personal needs.
My Purpose
To Try and start over 3000 miles away from the man I love and most of my family. To Take care of my youngest son the best way I can.
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Journal

Well...Another Day


Posted on Tue 12 May, 06:34 am

Well...Another DayAnother day has turned to darkness. I wish my ex husband would just leave me alone. How can I ever make it through this if he just keeps popping up here and there. Not physically of course. Hes 3000 miles away but hes still "there" in my heart and my tortured mind. He informed me that he is now dating again. Jesus I havent even had a chance to get my California Id yet. He didnt waste any time. It makes me wonder. I think the abuse was his way of pushing me to leave. And here I still sit uninterested in rebound relationships. Uninterested in relationships period. Nursing my wounded heart and self esteem. I can see things start to come together for me. I try to tell myself I will be ok but I am way beyond my comfort zone. There is no one but God to comfort me. I am working all the hours I can possibly work. If I were offered a second job I would take it for the simple distraction. How can he just bounce back like that? I assume I never meant anything to him either that   >>>

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My Comments
Penelope Dec 08, 2009 04:17:18
Hi, Kay, I saw your comment, and it really touched me. I could relate
a lot to your situation. Just thought I'd write you a few lines to
show you some support. Don't give up! Best of luck with your
donations.
April Jul 24, 2009 18:18:37
Hi Kay - thanks for dropping by my profile. The life experience we go
through sure do shape us into who we are  ! I like your attitude
regarding your homelessness and affinity for nature. That's beautiful
=)
Tricia May 14, 2009 18:28:30
Hey there.. I say your profile from anothers and we actually have a
lot in common.  I am a single mom of a little girl, been through the
abuse cycle (though that isn't why I am here).  Maybe we can stay in
touch and see how we make out over time.  I don't know if you have
heard this but it is something I heard SO many times from my Ex - who
was an abuser in my life - he would always tell me - "There are
so many other single Mom's out there and somehow they all get by, I
don't understand what makes you so different". BTW - I CAN'T work
for the time being since my daughter was badly injured when her father
and her were in a head-on collision.  I honestly just don't know how
to do it.. when she wasn't hurt - I did fine, but now... things have
changed.
MJ May 13, 2009 11:54:03
  I truly know where you are coming from!  I wish you all the best and
welcome to Microgiving~
johnnyroxx May 12, 2009 06:19:14
Thanks for welcoming me. I hope you had a great weekend too.

Take care, johnnyroxx and YellowSplash.com
The S.O.S. Mission May 09, 2009 02:55:16
Bless you Kay! It is His power that gives us victory. Keep us in your
prayers.

Blessings
Ramona
Becky Raymond: Administrator Apr 23, 2009 05:24:40
Welcome to MicroGiving!  Glad you found us.  

Here are Just a few tips to help you out.

Make sure you submit an official request for donations and mail in
your documentation so you can find some help. 
 
When you have a chance come on into the forum and let us get to know
you. You will find the link under the home page tab.  

It's a good idea to start a MicroGiving journal to keep us all updated
on your progress.  

Oh yeah, don't forget to check out the MicroGiving Blog!  

If you have any questions please do not hesitate to ask.
April Apr 22, 2009 20:19:12
Hi Kay! I just want to welcome you to MicroGiving! I'm really glad you
joined our community.There's a lot of really nice people on this site.


I have some suggestions for you that will help you find support and
raise donations. The best way to be successful around here is is to be
active on the site: 

1) Introduce yourself to other people on their profile
2) Talk to other members in MicroGiving Forum, and 
3) Comment on MicroGiving's Blog!  

Let me know if I can answer any questions for you. Stop by my page and
drop me a line =)

Best of luck!

-April




Ps. Put a picture up! You'll attract more attention and increase your
chances of support!

Mom of 2 Apr 22, 2009 01:43:45
Hi Kay.. and welcome!!

Sheri

 
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